xfs: widen timestamps to deal with y2038

This series performs some refactoring of our timestamp and inode
encoding functions, then retrofits the timestamp union to handle
timestamps as a 64-bit nanosecond counter.  Next, it adds bit shifting
to the non-root dquot timer fields to boost their effective size to 34
bits.  These two changes enable correct time handling on XFS through the
year 2486.

On a current V5 filesystem, inodes timestamps are a signed 32-bit
seconds counter, with 0 being the Unix epoch.  Quota timers are an
unsigned 32-bit seconds counter, with 0 also being the Unix epoch.

This means that inode timestamps can range from:
-(2^31-1) (13 Dec 1901) through (2^31-1) (19 Jan 2038).

And quota timers can range from:
0 (1 Jan 1970) through (2^32-1) (7 Feb 2106).

With the bigtime encoding turned on, inode timestamps are an unsigned
64-bit nanoseconds counter, with 0 being the 1901 epoch.  Quota timers
are a 34-bit unsigned second counter right shifted two bits, with 0
being the Unix epoch, and capped at the maximum inode timestamp value.

This means that inode timestamps can range from:
0 (13 Dec 1901) through (2^64-1 / 1e9) (2 Jul 2486)

Quota timers could theoretically range from:
0 (1 Jan 1970) through (((2^34-1) + (2^31-1)) & ~3) (16 Jun 2582).

But with the capping in place, the quota timers maximum is:
max((2^64-1 / 1e9) - (2^31-1), (((2^34-1) + (2^31-1)) & ~3) (2 Jul 2486).

v2: rebase to 5.9, having landed the quota refactoring
v3: various suggestions by Amir and Dave
v4: drop the timestamp unions, add "is bigtime?" predicates everywhere